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		<title>The End of the World as We Know It</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2012 16:56:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[By A.J. Llewellyn I am not a doomsdayist but ever since my niece started telling me that one of her teachers believes December 2012 will be the end of the world and several readers have written me to ask for my opinion on the subject &#8211; I am starting to wonder. I&#8217;ve always longed for [...]]]></description>
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<p>By A.J. Llewellyn</p>
<div><span> </span>I am not a doomsdayist but ever since my niece started telling me that one of her teachers believes December 2012 will be the end of the world and several readers have written me to ask for my opinion on the subject &#8211; I am starting to wonder.</div>
<div>I&#8217;ve always longed for the perfect world, a Dystopia where everyone was happy and treated each other right. As a kid I loved fairytales. I believed in them.</div>
<div>And I still want to.</div>
<div>The way we are all treating each other and the increasingly despicable things we are doing to animals, children and the elderly, makes me despair that we will never even come <em>close</em> to it.</div>
<div>I think we are at the end of the road as a species.</div>
<div><span> </span>Last night, I watched in horror a terrible story on the news about a local woman in Burbank who stabbed her family&#8217;s cocker spaniel to death. Three people have been arrested in what police say was a horrific incident of animal cruelty. <span> </span></div>
<div><span> </span>A few days ago a friend called to tell me of a woman he knew who started starving her Chihuahua in hopes it would die. Starvation is not a swift way to go, even in a small dog. After several days when the poor, helpless animal began to convulse, she finally smothered it with a pillow and killed it.</div>
<div><span> </span>This story has given me sleepless nights.</div>
<div><span> </span>My friend relating the story has been a good, solid friend for eighteen years but the fact he did not report this to the police in Detroit (where the incident occurred) really bothers me. The fact that he would not tell me who the woman was so I could report it bothers me more.</div>
<div><span> </span>I have said it before and I&#8217;ll say it again. Anyone who can harm an innocent animal WILL at some point hurt a human being.</div>
<div><span> </span>Each and every day, new and worse atrocities make the news. A Brazilian nurse, Camila de Moura, beat her innocent Yorkshire terrier to death in December and her neighbor put the results on Youtube when the police refused to arrest her.</div>
<div><span> </span>Why didn&#8217;t this neighbor do more than just video it? How could a mom beat a tiny dog in front of her toddler?</div>
<div><span> </span>Why is she not in jail?</div>
<div><span> </span>Last month, 101-year-old Texana Hollis was evicted from her home in Detroit, Michigan because officials deemed it unfit to live in. Were it not for the kindness of strangers she would be homeless. And still, her situation is dire. Her kindly Samaritans have no ramp for her wheelchair.</div>
<div><span> </span>How far must we continue to fall before it all is really and truly over?</div>
<div><span> </span>Yesterday, Josh Powell, the man suspected of murdering his wife, Susan, torched himself and his two tiny sons before social workers could stop him.</div>
<div><span> </span>I despair of us as a race&#8230;I can&#8217;t bear to watch youtube videos of anything but Don Ho singing Tiny Bubbles. The bullying, the videotaped bashings, the despair of our teenagers who wonder if it really does get better?</div>
<div><span> </span>How can we say it does when people bury dogs alive, stab their neighbors&#8217; cats for no good reason&#8230;and the electric companies turn off services when people can&#8217;t pay? How do we justify 93-year old World War II veteran, Marvin Schur, freezing to death inside his Bay City, Michigan home?</div>
<div><span> </span>Who is that we honor?</div>
<div><span> </span>I could go on and on but I am too outraged and utterly devastated that this is world as we know it. I have friends who wonder how I can spend my whole day writing but for me, living in a world of love and romance beats reality. I like my protective bubble, not that it isn&#8217;t frequently burst, but I believe in the power of positive thought, of kindness to our fellow earthlings.</div>
<div><span> </span>All of them.</div>
<div><span> </span>And I believe this our challenge now, to protect, respect and cherish every man, woman, and creature that shares this sacred space. I hope for everyone who feels victimized and hopless that a beautiful change is coming.</div>
<div><span> </span>I hope I am not just whispering into the wind&#8230;</div>
<div><span> </span>Aloha oe,</div>
<div><span> </span>A.J.</div>
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		<title>Hidden Mickeys and Astro Burgers</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jan 2012 16:04:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[By A.J. Llewellyn As a kid growing up in Australia I fell in love with Hollywood&#8230;old Hollywood and pined for it from afar. When my father sent me to LA to stay with a woman he was dating and I began to attend school here, I thought I&#8217;d died and gone to heaven. I tasted [...]]]></description>
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<div>By A.J. Llewellyn</div>
<div>As a kid growing up in Australia I fell in love with Hollywood&#8230;old Hollywood and pined for it from afar. When my father sent me to LA to stay with a woman he was dating and I began to attend school here, I thought I&#8217;d died and gone to heaven. I tasted peanut butter and jelly sandwiches for the first time. I baked brownies with my adopted siblings and best of all, the stores were open really, really late every single day AND we had a real Christmas tree!</div>
<div>I couldn&#8217;t believe it when my dad and his paramour broke up. I think I was more heart-broken than she was.</div>
<div>I couldn&#8217;t wait to come back here and live my life in Hollywood. And I did.</div>
<div>I have a strong passion for Hawaii and travel there at every opportunity but my life in LA sometimes seems&#8230;mundane, until I get out of town visitors.</div>
<div>Now that my friend and fellow author Serena Yates is visiting me I have creaked open the box that locked my Hollywood dreams.</div>
<div>It&#8217;s been fun showing her the LA I know and love. What I have realized is how wonderful all of California really is. I&#8217;ve been dismayed to see so many changes, particularly in Ojai, a town of cowboys and orange groves. I am shocked it&#8217;s now all high-end wine bars and uppity clothing boutiques. Even the once-grungy dive bar, The Hub, has had a lick or two of high-gloss paint.</div>
<div>But we still have our Hidden Mickeys, and I was pleased to discover, Astro Burgers.</div>
<div>For those who don&#8217;t know, Hidden Mickeys are a secret passion for us Angelinos. The pic above was taken in Disneyland and is an air vent in one of the saloons on Main Street. The Hidden Mickey inside was is only part of the inside joke&#8230;the real Hidden Mickey is the cut-out ears on the front panel.</div>
<div>These little gems are all over LA&#8230;and people are obsessed with them.</div>
<div>Me, I&#8217;m just glad some things don&#8217;t change. Not every piece of our precious celluloid paradise has been, to quote Joni Mitchell, paved over and turned into a parking lot.</div>
<div>I&#8217;ve enjoyed showing Serena the Brady Bunch house and some of my favorite little pockets of LA. Showing her these little treasures has made me fall in love with my home town again.</div>
<div>That in itself is a Hidden Mickey&#8230;one I didn&#8217;t expect. Love is like that. Living in a place for a long time is like an enduring marriage that becomes very comfortable but not especially exciting.</div>
<div>An unexpected outside influence can shine a light on how lucky you really are and for that, I am grateful.</div>
<div>So thank you, Serena, and Mr. Walt Disney. You both have a piece of my heart.</div>
<div>Aloha oe,</div>
<div>A.J.</div>
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		<title>Harriet Klausner: For the Love of Books</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Dec 2011 18:24:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[By A.J. Llewellyn As a writer I am an avid reader but I confess most of the stuff I read is non-fiction, or if it is fiction, it tends to be material related to things I adore, such as Hawaii. I have devoured a wealth of material this year but what I have found more [...]]]></description>
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<div>As a writer I am an avid reader but I confess most of the stuff I read is non-fiction, or if it is fiction, it tends to be material related to things I adore, such as Hawaii. I have devoured a wealth of material this year but what I have found more entertaining than the books themselves are some of the Amazon reviews.</div>
<div>I rarely look at Goodreads as a research option. It is not a very good source of upcoming titles unless the author puts them up themselves. Sometimes clicking one book leads you to another, a fact I love, but for sheer volume of reference material, Amazon is the best. I also like ABE books but that&#8217;s another story&#8230;</div>
<div>I have books on my TBB pile and eagerly await their releases both in ebook and paperback format. I tend to roam Amazon for information rather than actual purchases and time and again I run into one reviewer, Harriet Klausner whose name pops up as the #1 Hall of Fame Reviewer.</div>
<div>How in the heck does she read and review so many books? Does she have unlimited time and funds? Does she get more hours in a day than the rest of us? Does she have no life outside of reviewing?</div>
<div>Of course, I had to delve a little deeper (I do adore research) and she was once an acquisitions librarian in Pennsylvania. She says in her Amazon bio that she is a speed reader and reads two books a day. It still doesn&#8217;t explain the plethora of reviews she posts daily but good for her that she has found a niche and works it.</div>
<div>I don&#8217;t see how she can read two books a day and post so many reviews. She must be reading more. Further research (Google her) shows that Wikipedia posing the questions everyone asks. They also point to a Time magazine article about her where she says she reads 4 to 5 books a day which is a staggering output.</div>
<div>From forum posts and blogs about this fascinating lady. many question her actual reading of all the books she reviews. Almost all have glowing 4 or 5 star reviews.</div>
<div>It captivated me&#8230;and I was determined to learn more. I checked on a few reviews she did of books I read and loved&#8230;and some not so much.</div>
<div>None of her reviews have much detail. They skim the surface and sometimes skip over real issues addressed in the pages of the books she covers.</div>
<div>For instance, she reviewed one book I seriously detested (and won&#8217;t name here) but she gave it five stars and the kind of gushing prose I&#8217;ve come to expect from her. I was offended by the book playing fast and loose with Hawaiian history and Princess Kaiulani in particular, but then since Klausner &#8211; who seems to love Hawaii as much as I do &#8211; glosses over the details of everything she reads, she must have missed some pertinent facts.</div>
<div>I have a friend who teaches speed reading and he tells me that a good speed reader ingests 60 to 70% 0f material they read and, he explained, the read down the center of the page, their brain &#8216;filing in facts&#8217; from left to right. I am over-simplifying what he told me, but it explains why Harriet&#8217;s reviews seem so&#8230;threadbare.</div>
<div>Whether she is retaining everything she reads or not, or even merely glancing at the books she critiques, I have to say I am glad that readers and writers have someone like Harriet.</div>
<div>A reader who writes, reviews and thinks about books&#8230;<em>for the love of books</em>.</div>
<div>In this sad year in which more and more book stores are closing and radio DJs are griping about the wasteful expense of keeping libraries open, I wish there were more people like Harriet spreading their love of books &#8211; and not giving one star reviews on books authors haven&#8217;t yet even written (Hello, Goodreads!!!).</div>
<div>I wish her a year of good books in 2012 and for all of us the exact same thing.</div>
<div>Aloha oe,</div>
<div>A.J.</div>
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		<title>Books for Christmas</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Dec 2011 16:40:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[By A.J. Llewellyn Some years ago I heard an awful story about a spurned gift that still resonates in my mind. So much so that the first thing I do when I receive a book is to open it and check there&#8217;s nothing inside. It&#8217;s a good habit to fall into because some people, especially [...]]]></description>
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<p>By A.J. Llewellyn</p>
<div>Some years ago I heard an awful story about a spurned gift that still resonates in my mind. So much so that the first thing I do when I receive a book is to open it and check there&#8217;s nothing inside.</div>
<div>It&#8217;s a good habit to fall into because some people, especially older folk, like to tuck a little something extra into these books. The weirder the tome, the more likely it is to contain a hidden gem.</div>
<div>This year, my cousin in Australia sent me a biography of some bloke I&#8217;ve never heard of&#8230;a maverick priest called Chris Riley.</div>
<div>Now, I&#8217;m an avid reader and I like reading on a variety of topics but this book just didn&#8217;t&#8230;call out to me. I looked at it, turned it over, read the back and thought, I am ashamed to say, <em>I can wait to read this one.</em> I tore into the rest of the things she sent me and thought no more about the gift until I called her yesterday (which was Christmas Day in Australia) to wish her a wonderful day.</div>
<div>&#8220;What did you think of the photo?&#8221; she asked.</div>
<div><em>What photo?</em></div>
<div>I hemmed and hawed until she said the photo she&#8217;d tucked inside the book. I raced to open it and was thoroughly ashamed I hadn&#8217;t cracked it open until our phone call. Inside was a crisp one hundred dollar bill (thank you, Jesus!) and a photo taken 50 years ago at Bondi Beach of her father and mine, long before they got married and had families.</div>
<div>They were so handsome and excited, hope shining in these Greek immigrants&#8217; eyes for the future. My uncle is now gone after a long struggle with Alzheimer&#8217;s, a disease that now has my father in its steely grip.</div>
<div>This photo, one I&#8217;ve never seen before is now my most treasured possession. I will never, ever not open another book I&#8217;m sent for Christmas or any other day. And I will hold onto the hope I see in my father&#8217;s eyes. I will make a point of reading Father Riley&#8217;s story, too. There has to be a damned good reason my cousin sent it.</div>
<div>Whoever and wherever you are today and every day over this holiday season, hug and love those you hold dear. Our time is short, but love, like books for Christmas, lives forever.</div>
<div>Aloha oe,</div>
<div>A.J.</div>
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		<title>Christmas in Flip Flops</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Dec 2011 15:49:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[By A.J. Llewellyn My latest release, &#8220;Christmas in Flip Flops&#8221; is one of my new favorites. The idea came for it whilst I was in Honolulu this past September researching my fourth and final Pearl Harbor series book, &#8220;Avenging Heart&#8221;. Mt friend Shani had just taken up an unusual post as a dental hygienist at [...]]]></description>
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<p>My latest release, &#8220;Christmas in Flip Flops&#8221; is one of my new favorites. The idea came for it whilst I was in Honolulu this past September researching my fourth and final Pearl Harbor series book, &#8220;Avenging Heart&#8221;.<br />
Mt friend Shani had just taken up an unusual post as a dental hygienist at one of the many military bases on the island. It gave me the idea when she talked about how weird it would be to be spending Christmas in flip flops.<br />
Yes, even though we live in LA, it&#8217;s still winter&#8230;to chilly for flip flops!<br />
Of course, I took the idea, ran with it, turned it on its head and gave it some romantic angst.<br />
How would you cope if you&#8217;d been unemployed for almost a year, you finally land a great job with good pay and full benefits&#8230;but it&#8217;s in Honolulu and your lover&#8217;s entire family is traveling from Peru to Los Angeles for the holidays?<br />
Well, my character, Devon, takes the job and ignites his lover, Manco&#8217;s wrath. Devon wonders if he still has a boyfriend when he flies to Oahu reporting for duty&#8230;<br />
I noticed with great interest the day after my book was released that the US pulled out its last soldier from Iraq this past weekend.<br />
This doesn&#8217;t mean that the war on terror is over. Far from it. We still have men and women stationed in Afghanistan, Kuwait, other points all over the world, and, in military bases all over the Hawaiian Islands. In fact there have never been so many soldiers in Hawaii since WWII.<br />
My story is timely but it is not a political one. It is a love story between two men whose problems &#8211; unemployment, disagreements, family, work &#8211; are real, but their love is strong and very, very romantic.<br />
It is also my love song to the islands and all the people who call it home. To the many men and women stationed in those historic facilities that played such a significant part in history following the bombing of Pearl Harbor, I love you and respect you all. I hope you all get to have a peaceful Christmas, hopefully with your families, and definitely in flip flops.<br />
For more info on &#8220;Christmas in Flip Flops&#8221;, please check out this link at the awesome Amber Allure site:</p>
<p>http://www.amberquill.com/AmberAllure/ChristmasFlipFlops.html</p>
<p>Aloha oe,</p>
<p>A.J.</p>
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		<title>Love in US</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Dec 2011 20:32:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[by A.J. Llewellyn I had an incredible experience on Saturday night that I wish many more people could have shared. But for those of us who witnessed the giant opening of a butterfly&#8217;s gorgeous, all-encompassing, shimmering rainbow wings at the Beth Chayim Chadashim, it was an evening none of us will ever forget. The GLBT [...]]]></description>
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<p>by A.J. Llewellyn</p>
<p>I had an incredible experience on Saturday night that I wish many more people could have shared. But for those of us who witnessed the giant opening of a butterfly&#8217;s gorgeous, all-encompassing, shimmering rainbow wings at the Beth Chayim Chadashim, it was an evening none of us will <em>ever </em>forget.</p>
<p>The GLBT temple&#8217;s cantor, the enormously charismatic and talented Juval Porat, in the words of the PR brochure, threw off his cantorial  persona. He held a concert of songs and monologues on what he describes as the templates of love. Those of us who have been privileged to hear him sing week after week at the temple know he has that extra sparkle that superstars have. I have a feeling however that he himself has no clue of how seriously special he is, and that is part of his charm.</p>
<p>Yes, he has matinee idol good looks, a sweet smile that is haunting, and he has brains and mathematical talent on top of his high creativity. He also carries with him the heavy load of expectation. The formerly German-based Juval is the first cantor to be ordained in that country since the Holocaust. Yes, he is the shining hope of a nation still traumatized by the events of WWII.</p>
<p>It is his burden and an honor. I see the invisible bag of hammers he carries around and I empathize with him.</p>
<p>Since the city of LA snapped him up two years ago, he is the first to admit the transition was &#8220;overwhelming.&#8221; I too, came from someplace else and the culture shock of coming to America is huge.</p>
<p>As he performed last night with his partner, Todd, beaming from the middle row behind me, and his proud mother sitting a few seats away from me (she flew in from Israel for the event) I realized that Juval has done a lot of thinking and observing in his two years here. He has come to realize how love and fear have become horribly entwined. Not just here, but everywhere.</p>
<p>One of the monologues he performed from John Bowe&#8217;s book, <em>US: Americans Talk About Love,</em> was as a married mother of two who slowly comes to realize her true love is another woman.</p>
<p>His heart-breaking portrayal of Lisa Norgaard&#8217;s story was devastating. As he describes the loneliness of being free to be herself, fear transforms to slow acceptance. I saw many heads nodding. As he talked about the mingled thrill and terror of finding <em>the one</em>, who doesn&#8217;t come in the package she expected, it all rang true.  Juval went on to talk about how all of us at some time or other in our lives hide behind a persona of some kind, yearning to be loved. For ourselves. Just for us. For who we are&#8230;and yet, we hide behind fear.</p>
<p>There was humor too in his fabulous rendition of &#8220;I&#8217;m Hip&#8221; and some of his interactions with his incredible band. I personally loved his encore of Katy Perry&#8217;s &#8220;I Kissed a Girl&#8221; and as the audience rose to its feet, applauding him, his shyness seemed to rise to the surface. I hope this is the first of many loving concerts the cantor performs (the proceeds of this event are being donated to Project Chicken Soup, founded at BCC and ONE National Gay and Lesbian Archives). I hope we don&#8217;t end up losing him to a world tour and fame and riches, but I suspect not. I suspect that bag of hammers keeps him grounded and keeps him humble.</p>
<p>What I hope more than anything is that he keeps growing and exploring his art and the nature of Love in US.</p>
<p>Aloha oe,</p>
<p>AJ</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[By A.J. Llewellyn When I was twelve years old, my father gave me the best Christmas present of my life. It was an Olivetti portable typewriter. He was a little concerned about my obsession with writing and reading, but somebody must have given him the idea of the typewriter (he says he regrets it now [...]]]></description>
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<p>By A.J. Llewellyn</p>
<p>When I was twelve years old, my father gave me the best Christmas present of my life. It was an Olivetti portable typewriter. He was a little concerned about my obsession with writing and reading, but somebody must have given him the idea of the typewriter (he says he regrets it now because he hates my books!) and I will be forever grateful. I loved that thing. For me, messing with the typewriter ribbon, blue carbon paper (memba those?) and thick pieces of paper on which I taught myself to type was the stuff of dreams.<br />
I wrote my first celebrity fan mail to actor Richard Chamberlain on it. I wrote stories, poems, ideas&#8230;and have never stopped.As a journalist, which was my first and only career choice, the company I worked for had giant behemoth manual typewriters. You had to pound on the damned things. Hello carpal tunnel!<br />
To this day, I can always tell if a person learned to type on a typewriter first by the way they pound a computer keyboard.<br />
By the time the company I worked for invested in electric typewriters, I was in love. Mine was an IBM Selectric and it came with an extra corrector ribbon. Remember those fiddly little orange plastic spools?<br />
Gone were the days of having to retype each and every page because of one misspelling.<br />
I bought my IBM from my boss because I was working on articles for a magazine in my private time. I had become attatched to the machine and was worried it would disappear one day the way the behemoth had&#8230;but I did feel as if I was cheating on poor Olivetti.<br />
That beautiful machine has traveled the world with me. He (I think of him as a he) sits in my office in my loft and has been looked after by the House of Typewriters here in Studio City for decades. When computers became big, the store changed its name to House of Office Machines, but they still love handling typewriters.<br />
I covet many they have on display (people dropped them off and never picked them up again) and once had a sizable collection. I cut them all back and have kept Olivetti and my laptop. The thing of it is, I can&#8217;t let go of my first love. The machine that listened, without judgment and let me pour my heart out. Computers will come and go but Olivetti will be with me until some natural disaster separates us.<br />
How about you? What was the first thing you learned to type on and do you still have it?</p>
<p>Aloha oe,<br />
A.J.</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Nov 2011 19:04:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[By A.J. Llewellyn My new book Abiding Heart is out today and this third installment of the Pearl Harbor series is probably my favorite. Tinder and Jason are together, united in their desire to protect Hawaii and help rebuild their precious island home in the aftermath of the attack on Pearl Harbor. I&#8217;ve immersed myself [...]]]></description>
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<p>By A.J. Llewellyn</p>
<p>My new book Abiding Heart is out today and this third installment of the Pearl Harbor series is probably my favorite. Tinder and Jason are together, united in their desire to protect Hawaii and help rebuild their precious island home in the aftermath of the attack on Pearl Harbor.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve immersed myself in history to write the love story of Tinder and Jason, two gay men living in war-torn Honolulu. When I was in Hawaii in September researching Book 4, Avenging Heart (which will be released April 23, 2012 by Total-e-Bound) and my upcoming December 18 release Christmas in Flip Flops (Amber Allure), it was a very different Honolulu I visited from my previous one.</p>
<p>The Honolulu of this very minute actually gave me a small glimpse into what the island city must have been like after Pearl Harbor. Anyone who reads my books knows I love Hawaii and I am guilty of romancing its past&#8230;wishing I could have experienced it before &#8216;we all came there&#8217;. The truth is there wasn&#8217;t really a gentle past. In King Kamehameha&#8217;s time the <em>kapu</em> system was so rigid it was easy to commit a fatal offense. Even looking the king in the eye guaranteed a death sentence.</p>
<p>In Tinder and Jason&#8217;s time, with America&#8217;s entry in WWII, neighbors feared one another. Food was scarce, martial law was in effect&#8230; Gossip, slander, unfounded rumors, the threat of Japanese internment camps&#8230;all of it was real.</p>
<p>The islands swarmed with servicemen&#8230;and today they do as well. I noticed a huge surge of armed forces on my most recent trip. Some 15,000 families have recently come to the islands, their men and women preparing to ship out from the various military bases scattered around the islands to Afghanistan and Iraq.</p>
<p>Hawaii today is experiencing a deprivation I&#8217;ve never witnessed before. Whole families are losing their homes and camping on beaches. Ewa Beach, for example, has a two-mile tent city that is heart-breaking to see.</p>
<p>On the flipside, what is uplifting is the way the islands have rallied behind these many military families &#8211; all of whom are sacrificing for our country, for our freedom. Movie theaters, the snorkel bay of Hanauma, restaurants, cafés, supermarkets all have special discounts for them. And so they should. When I first started working on my Pearl Harbor series and talked to the families of Pearl Harbor survivors and a few remaining ones still with us, I learned to thank them all for their sacrifices, for what they are doing for our country.</p>
<p>At Hanauma Bay, as I stood in line to go snorkeling, I met a young military family newly arrived from Texas. He was a new recruit and seemed excited. He was so young and sweet I couldn&#8217;t help but pray he comes back to his family when so many don&#8217;t.</p>
<p>I am grateful to this young man and all the other brave men and women who&#8217;ve given so much in the war against terror. I thank them all and their families who are also sacrificing by having to cope without their loved ones. I thank them for their priceless gifts.</p>
<p>For more information on this book and the Pearl Harbor series, please follow this link:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.total-e-bound.com/product.asp?strParents=&amp;CAT_ID=&amp;P_ID=1433">http://www.total-e-bound.com/product.asp?strParents=&amp;CAT_ID=&amp;P_ID=1433</a></p>
<p>Aloha oe,</p>
<p>AJ</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Nov 2011 23:15:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[By A.J. Llewellyn The past few days have brought about a huge change in California weather. We have gone from 90 degree temperatures of last week to 50-60 this week. Some people are grumbling&#8230;me, I&#8217;m singin&#8217; in the rain. I love the changes of season and yes, we do actually get them here like I [...]]]></description>
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<div>The past few days have brought about a huge change in California weather. We have gone from 90 degree temperatures of last week to 50-60 this week. Some people are grumbling&#8230;me, I&#8217;m singin&#8217; in the rain.</div>
<div>I love the changes of season and yes, we do actually get them here like I said. I&#8217;m like a kid in school who is happy to hunker down and write&#8230;not like the summertime when everybody else is out playing and I&#8217;m stuck doing homework.</div>
<div>Deadlines schmedlines. Bring &#8216;em on!</div>
<div><em>Passages</em>.</div>
<div>I&#8217;m observing things slowing down&#8230;my beautiful, aging dog is showing increasing signs of fragility. I hang on to every moment with her. I watch her death-like sleep, relieved when I see her chest rise and fall. She is like a falling leaf, a spectacular, dazzling, brilliant creature I cannot, will not give up on. I coax her every movement, willing her to go on. For me. I need her and I love her.</div>
<div>She still has her usual ebullience, wanting to go out in the rain. She wants to walk, but her body gives her aches and pains. She wants my attention. I give it. I watch her struggle to lie down and I learn so much from her. She does it all with no complaints.</div>
<div>And yet I hear adults moaning about clouds and a bit of rain.</div>
<div>People cancel lunches, business appointments and dates because of <em>potential</em> rain.</div>
<div><em>Passages</em>.</div>
<div>I&#8217;ve lost so many people I love recently. My darling friend and neighbor, Gia, died in childbirth. Her death also took her baby son, Samson.</div>
<div>The grief still clings to me. I wish its leaves would fall. Nursing my heartbreak feels like a harbinger of doom.</div>
<div>I don&#8217;t want to lose anyone else&#8230;especially not my dog. I find myself bargaining with God. I won&#8217;t shop online. I won&#8217;t play Diner Dash. I will take 30 days of non-stop rain. I will write longer days&#8230;I will do anything.</div>
<div>Just let me, please,<em> please</em>, have my dog.</div>
<div><em>Passages.</em></div>
<div>An old aunt died last week. I feel so guilty because my cousin and I promised her numerous times we&#8217;d go visit. We didn&#8217;t. And now I will never know what wisdom, what wonderful tales she might have told us.</div>
<div>This season, about to bring my favorite times of the year &#8211; Thanksgiving and Christmas &#8211; reminds me to take the time to slow down. Savor each leaf.</div>
<div><em>Passages.</em></div>
<div>I wonder how soon I can start playing holiday music without my neighbors going bonkers. I love the sight and smell of warm spiced cider in the market stores.</div>
<div>These seasonal foods too are like falling leaves. I love them as I eat them, mourning the fact they won&#8217;t come around until next year.</div>
<div>Oops&#8230; if the Mayan calendar is wrong and we don&#8217;t all perish then.</div>
<div><em>Passages</em>.</div>
<div>The rain has come back. My dog has lifted her head to the sound. Content to be inside, dreaming of&#8230;what? Mobility? I hear her happy sigh as she shuts her eyes, her head on her paws.</div>
<div><em>Passages.</em></div>
<div>A friend of mine tried to take his own life a few weeks ago. I&#8217;ve stayed in touch with him each and every day, trying to remind him of all his reasons to live. This is not his first attempt and I hope his leaves aren&#8217;t falling.</div>
<div>I love my life. I love this weather. I will make a bargain with God. I&#8217;ll sweep up leaves for the rest of my life if he lets my friend find joy.</div>
<div>And if he please, please, please&#8230;just lets me have my dog.</div>
<div>Aloha oe,</div>
<div>A.J.</div>
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		<description><![CDATA[By A.J. Llewellyn Growing up in Australia, I grew up without the benefit of Halloween. To us back then, it was one of those holidays we envied as kids since anything that involved getting loads of sweets was a fantastic thing. I had cousins here who lived on their Halloween hauls for weeks&#8230; Perhaps those [...]]]></description>
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<div>Growing up in Australia, I grew up without the benefit of Halloween. To us back then, it was one of those holidays we envied as kids since anything that involved getting loads of sweets was a fantastic thing. I had cousins here who lived on their Halloween hauls for weeks&#8230;</div>
<div>Perhaps those years of deprivation have caught up with me because I am now obsessed with candy.</div>
<div>Last night I went trick-or-treating for the first time ever. I escorted my friends&#8217; kids around the block and really got an eyeful, as the saying goes.</div>
<div>Since I moved her in 1984, I&#8217;ve largely ignored Halloween. I am still hurt that my beloved black cat, Winnie was stolen from my backyard two days before Halloween that year. I still think about her and hope her demise was not as shocking and grim as my mind insists it was. I had no idea people did such disgusting things. I&#8217;ve never let a cat of mine outdoors for any reason ever since. Whoever took that beautiful animal knew me and knew I had her. She never ventured out front&#8230;.</div>
<div>See, I torture myself still.</div>
<div>It&#8217;s taken a lot for me to semi-embrace Halloween. We Australians still think it&#8217;s all pretty bizarre but what I saw last night made me realize just <em>how</em> bizarre. I saw families wielding baby buggies up and down neighborhoods they don&#8217;t live in, just to grab free sweets.</div>
<div>I saw kids in great costumes and kids in lame costumes. I saw kids whose parents had no money for costumes, but still took them out prowling for candy. I pitied these kids because they felt the need to protect their parents when people questioned their lack of a guise and believe me, they do.</div>
<div>&#8220;Who are you supposed to be?&#8221; I heard over and over again&#8230;</div>
<div>&#8220;A little kid,&#8221; one girl said defensively.</div>
<div>I don&#8217;t care how poor you are, even a sheet thrown over the kid and claiming him to be a ghost is better than <em>nothing</em>. Just my humble opinion.</div>
<div>I saw a woman balancing her kid and his plastic orange jack-o-lantern in one hand and a can of pest spray in the other.</div>
<div>&#8220;Is that part of his costume?&#8221; I asked her.</div>
<div>&#8220;No,&#8221; she replied. &#8220;Somebody sent me an email saying this is the best self-defense tool a woman can carry. Spray this stuff in somebody&#8217;s eyes and they&#8217;ll regret every trying something.&#8221;</div>
<div>Oookay, then. Nice way to approach a total stranger asking for free stuff&#8230;</div>
<div>I was astounded at the pushiness of people, the rudeness when parents felt that homeowners were being Scrooges by handing out only one or two pieces of candy. I thought this was just&#8230;unreal.</div>
<div>I saw people trick-or-treating late into the night, hammering on doors of homes where it was obvious the occupants were done for the night.</div>
<div>Where was it written that the world owes these people candy?</div>
<div>I thought about this last night as I watched the new episode of <em>Hawaii Five-O.</em> In the opening seen Danny Williams takes his daughter trick-or-treating around the seedy hotel where he&#8217;s staying (really??) and when one guy opens his door and insists -twice &#8211; that he has no candy, Danny gets aggressive.</div>
<div>&#8220;Get her some candy, man,&#8221; he says, then acts irate when the guy caves in, slopes off to the kitchen and comes back with mini-bottles of booze and plunks them into the kid&#8217;s candy bucket.</div>
<div>What the hell did he expect?</div>
<div>I saw this behavior over and over again last night. People grading the size and quality of candy. Griping over bubblegum not being an acceptable candy&#8230;</div>
<div><em>What?!</em></div>
<div>It&#8217;s funny that at the annual Gay Halloween Parade in WeHo last night, the predominant theme was the government&#8217;s greed.</div>
<div>We are all guilty of this, my friends. Even on an individual scale. I saw adults act like spoiled children over little pieces of candy, setting a very bad example for their kids.</div>
<div>We want, we want, we want. And, we expect. <em>Wah wah wah wah wah..</em>.</div>
<div>I like candy as much as the next person, perhaps more. I don&#8217;t think I am any closer to adoring Halloween than I ever have been, but at least I do know it hasn&#8217;t and never will turn me into somebody I would be ashamed to be&#8230;the morning after candy.</div>
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<div>Aloha oe,</div>
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<div>A.J.</div>
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